There is one verse that is outstanding, to me, in 1 Corinthians 13…verse 11…
“When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.”
The paragraph in which this sentence lies seems to cover a little territory. I know there are great commentaries covering it, but this once sentence just jumps out at me. It reminds me of what a person who walks in love is.
Not like over 50 mature. Old…like, well, okay…me. We may be old, but maturity is not necessarily about age.
I have four grown children and three grandchildren. Watching the stages of maturity has been a front-row adventure. One of our grandchildren is 6 months old – and yes, she is totally cute! We have a grandson who is a year and a half and another granddaughter who just turned 4. Yeah, they are super cute, too. At each of their stages, they all have one thing in common. Their main concern is themselves.
As for our grown children, they have mostly grown out of that self thing. The three who are married now consider their spouses and their children. They even deny themselves something they want so their families can have what they want or need. But, when they were the ages of their own children, they were just as self-needy.
There is nothing wrong with that, in a small child. Our youngest granddaughter can do nothing for her self. She depends on Mommy and Daddy to feed, change and entertain her. She needs these things and they lavish them upon her. But, in about 15 or 20 years, she should have grown out of this stage. Our daughter’s son is a year and a half…he gets around and can entertain himself, but still has his needs he depends on Mommy and Daddy for. Even our four year old granddaughter has demands for food, entertainment, etc.
Love puts others, first. Immaturity is about self. Therefore, it stands to reason, to love without reservation, selflessly and without condition is mature.
One more post to go in this series. Hope ya’ll ain’t bored, yet.